Do you feel envious every time you see a couple holding each others hand or wrapping their arms together in the street, mall, office, cafeteria or everywhere? Or maybe you're one of those who resent every time you see your friend's profile pictures in Facebook, Twitter or any other social medias with their boyfriends, girlfriends or even with their husbands and babies. Why do you have those feelings? Probably because you want to be happy. You want to be with someone because you don't want to be lonely. But is being in a relationship with someone really bring you happiness? Will it stop you from feeling lonely? I guess the answer is NO. There are many people who still feel lonely even if they are with someone, they still feel the anxiety, depression insecurities and everything else, hence the only reason why you feel lonely is because you believe that being in a relationship with someone will make you happy. It is your thoughts that pull you down. How do you stop feeling lonely? The answer is to stop believing that being in a relationship per se will bring you happiness. Remember that no one can eliminate your loneliness but you yourself. So stop sobbing at your solitariness and learn to enjoy your own company.Show everyone you care and in return everyone will care for you. Give away love and surely love will find you.
--------> Not an expert, but this might help.